You know how it is when you’re hosting an event. You want everyone to feel welcome and at ease, especially when they walk through the door. That’s kind of my thing—I always try to greet everyone as they arrive, just to make sure they feel seen.
But here’s the catch… I’m not always sure who is actually there for our Girlfriend Hub events. Most of the time, they’re held in public spaces, so there’s always this tiny risk that I’m walking up to someone who’s, well, just there for a coffee.
And, girl, let me tell you, I’ve had some seriously awkward moments.
Like, one time, I was standing by the door, feeling all confident and ready to welcome the next guest. This woman walks in— and I do what I always do: smile, walk up to her, and ask, “Hey! Are you here for the Girlfriend Hub event?”
She gives me this blank look, then sort of awkwardly laughs and says, “Uh, no... I’m just grabbing a coffee.”
Cue immediate face flush and that internal cringe moment where I’m thinking, Oh noooo, what did I just do? I quickly mutter something like, “Oh, cool, enjoy your coffee!” and pretty much run away in embarrassment.
And, honestly? This has happened more times than I’d like to admit. Sometimes I wish I could just know for sure who’s there for the event and who’s not, but that’s just not how it works in these public places.
Here’s the thing, though—I’ve realized those awkward moments are so worth it. Yeah, they’re uncomfortable, and yes, I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve walked away thinking, “Oh no, did I just make this person feel weird?” But it’s also how I’ve met some of the best people. Small talk, even when it’s a little awkward, is everything when it comes to building real connections.
I mean, if I didn’t put myself out there and ask, I’d miss out on so many amazing conversations—and even new friendships. We’re all a little nervous sometimes, right? But pushing through that discomfort can open doors (literally and figuratively).
So, even though I’ve had my fair share of embarrassing encounters, I’ve learned that the awkwardness is a small price to pay for those genuine connections. It’s not about getting it perfect every time. It’s about showing up, saying hi, and letting people know they’re welcome—even if they’re just there for a latte.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, if you’ve ever felt embarrassed or awkward in moments like this, you’re definitely not alone. But don’t let that stop you from putting yourself out there. Small talk, as uncomfortable as it can be, is often the start of something amazing. And honestly, isn’t that what friendship is all about?
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